as someone with a pisces sun and a leo moon sign, I am often quick to judge people, especially when I/my subconscious deems them to be harmful to me. I'm trying to make an active effort to remember that everyone is human, with their own set of unique experiences and personality traits that make them who they are. people hurt people for some reason or other; just because they've hurt me doesn't mean that they are a bad person.
I still reserve the right to decide that someone who has hurt me is a bad person. but I want to consider carefully first whether they did it purposefully or accidentally, whether there were other factors at hand, whether I was doing something to hurt them.
on a somewhat but not completely related not, today, for the first time since I started working at my current company, we were asked to submit anonymous feedback for our manager.